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The best revenge

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Somebody has screwed us all over. They stole from us or even cheated on us, got us fired, or worse.

We all wanted to get revenge at one point. “I’ll teach them a lesson. They will never do that again,” We thought.

However, when we try to get revenge, we open the door for them to get revenge. This could keep escalating to who knows what point.

We always need to find out what angle they were coming from initially. Maybe they were trying to help, and we needed to understand what they intended.

The best form of revenge is success when your partner cheated on you. The best revenge is not getting them back when they see you with a partner that looks better. They see you in shape with a nicer car. Then, they will think about what they did.

Getting revenge could get you into trouble with your boss or even law enforcement. Who knows how far things will go? You might hate the person you become in the end.

It might be challenging initially, but no revenge. Success is the best option for you. Life is short, and it is not worth the time.

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There are no regrets only lessons learned.

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When I was about 19 years old, I worked for a store that bought and sold used electronics on eBay and made huge profits. Although I was young, I wanted to start a store like the one I worked for.

I talked to my parents, and they discouraged me from it. They said I was too young and needed more experience. Looking back, I am disappointed and regret not starting a store like the one I worked for.

But it was a great lesson teaching me. That parents give the best support, not the best advice. There was another time later I wanted to build a huge website that would cost a lot of money to make.

This time I didn’t care what my parents said, and I built it, and it was a massive success for a while. I had a lot of fun working on it and maintaining it.

Most life lessons we learn the hard way from experience. Therefore we should avoid getting stuck and dwelling on something that did not happen as I did.

We all make mistakes, and mistakes are unavoidable. After all, we are human. No regrets only, lessons learned. If we sat down and regretted falling over as kids, we would never learn to walk.

Life is full of lessons. The faster we learn them, the faster we can move on to the next one. We can never master life and not make stupid decisions that lead to regret. They will happen, and we must look at them as learning opportunities.